Breastfeeding a child can be a lot of difficult work. It’s extremely important that new mothers who are breastfeeding receive the support and help that they need. This support can come from many different sources such as spouses, family members, lactation consultants, friends, babysitters and support groups. First and foremost, a new mother’s significant other can provide a great deal of support by looking out for her physical needs, providing words of encouragement, and making sure that any visitors give the new mother and her child privacy and space if they need it.
Likewise, friends and family should support the new mother in their lives by keeping in mind that she might need occasional moments of privacy. However, at appropriate moments they can offer to hold the baby so his or her mother can take a shower or look after herself. New mothers may also welcome friends and family who provide them with meals, help to clean up the house, offer to run errands, or even call in the middle of the day for a quick chat. Above all, it is essential that friends and family never undermine the new mother’s confidence in her ability to breastfeed her child. They should take care to respect her wishes and not feed the baby formula or make negative comments about her breastfeeding.
Breastfeeding mothers who have older children may consider hiring a babysitter to look after them as they adjust to life with their new babies. By doing so, a new mother can rest assured that every member of the family is being cared for. This is another role that friends and family could step in to fill if they are looking for ways to support a new mother.
If a new mother is struggling to breastfeed, she could benefit from meeting with a lactation consultant to discuss any problems or issues. A lactation consultant can answer any of her questions and help to reassure her about the process of breastfeeding. Breastfeeding support groups are also a great way for a new mother to talk about breastfeeding and ask any questions she may have. These groups are typically led by experienced mothers who breastfed and can provide excellent tips and support.